Is there a website that has a list of builds for multiple chars for each type like pvp, raid, pve as well as team builds
You can't, because it depends on the compositions of your team and the situations. For example, if your team has a lot of wind elements, of course the build will be different from a team with random elements or other elements. The point is learn the advantages and disadvantages of each vision cards and the arrangement of hero's elements that are stronger than enemy's team
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lW-GNzmlADg look at my funny roll on zanzan check this out for guide
You're best bet, honestly, is to look up character reviews on YT and communicate with your Guildmates who are more versed than yourself.